I experienced the struggle today. Took 15min to decide if I should say sorry, and a whole half and hour to decide how should I say it. And I tell you, it takes so so so much to be able to put down your pride.
What to do? The Bible said we mustn't let the sun go down on our anger. But when God says you have to do it, you just have to do it. That's obedience. Obedience means not doing the things that you only feel like doing, but it's learning to let go of the "me myself I" mind set. And I tell you, it's not easy. Try it for yourself and you'll know.
And obviously I don't mean the say sorry to boyfriend or girlfriend kind lah. That's pacifying.
My dear Xueling and Lindy, the second hardest thing to say is bye bye when I don't want to say it! Do take care of yourselves in US, and do take care of each other!? Don't everyday eat sleep play then nothing to do get into quarrels ah!! And got anything must tell us hor! Other than the qian bu gou yong part :) I hate to admit this openly, but yes, I will miss you two. Bon voyage!
I koped some photos from our msn groups! We look so cute last time lah! Don't kill me ah, anyway most of the photos I took is posted by a girl called long!! LOLS
